Influencer's View That Men Must Rent For Girlfriend's Family Sparks Heated Debate

A comment from skitmaker and social media personality Nons Miraj has triggered intense online debate after she declared that one of the best ways for a man to prove he loves a woman is by renting a home for her and her entire family.

The controversial advice was given during an appearance on the popular "Tea With Tay" podcast, hosted by actor Taymesan Emmanuel.

The Viral Statement and Podcast Context

During the conversation, Nons Miraj (whose real name is Chinonso Ukah) pressed her point by posing a specific scenario to the host: "Why can’t your senses tell you as a man you are attracted to this type of girl, how do you show you love her?... You move her and her family out of where they are staying. Yes, rent a place for them."

She further explained her stance, suggesting that this level of practical support is a reflection of genuine commitment, especially when a partner's family is in difficult circumstances. "If you are outside the country talking to a girl, do you leave her to be staying in a place where rain falls and the thing enters from the roof?" she asked rhetorically.

The host, Taymesan Emmanuel, appeared visibly surprised by the suggestion.

A Divided Public Reaction

The clip quickly went viral, igniting a fierce debate across social media, particularly on X (formerly Twitter). Reactions have been deeply divided, falling into two clear camps:

* Supporters of Responsibility and Provision: Some users agreed with Miraj's emphasis on practical, financial responsibility as a cornerstone of love. One supporter, @QueenPraiseTimi, commented: "She’s speaking the truth. This is why God created men before creating women... men must always be the providers."

* Critics of Transactional Love and Double Standards: The majority of the online reaction, however, has been critical. Many questioned the expectation, with one user on the Gistmania forum asking, "So how does she prove she love me ? .. getting me a Lamborghini?". Another pointedly asked, "Women no dey rent for men and their family?" highlighting a perceived double standard. Others labeled modern dating a "poverty alleviation program" and called dating a woman from a poor background a "financial error".

Broader Social Commentary

The debate taps into larger, ongoing conversations in Nigeria about gender roles, financial expectations in relationships, and the perceived monetization of romance. While Nons Miraj framed her advice as an act of profound care, critics argue it places an unreasonable and one-sided financial burden on men, potentially reducing love to a transactional exchange.

The skitmaker, also known for hosting the dating reality show Hunt Game Show, has succeeded in sparking a nationwide conversation that continues to play out on social media timelines.

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